In my many years as editor of Best Lover
magazine, I have had scores of conversations with women about the most intimate
details of their sex lives. They have told me things they have related to no
other person, including their most esoteric sexual practices and wildest
fantasies.
I observed from these conversations that
majority of women are not fixated on the penis the way men for instance are obsessed
with breasts, ass and some other feminine parts. But I often steer the
conversation towards that direction to find out firsthand from them what they
feel about that important male organ: The penis. And more often than not, they
tell me sincerely how they feel about men’s cock.
It cannot be denied that when it comes to
penises, some women do have a definite preference as to size or shape and
anything short of that may not please them. But the overwhelming majority of
women I have interviewed have confessed that length, width, appearance, and
complexion are all factors that do not matter to them in a long-term
relationship when they love the guy and he treats them well. I eventually came
to the realization that as long as the penis is not a very small one, the
average woman is not so bothered about the size. Of a truth, men are the ones
who usually bellyache about penis size and not the average woman. In reality,
penis size is not as significant as most men believe it to be because the penis
is not the only body part that can be used to stimulate and satisfy a woman.
As a good lover, you must learn to use your
hands, lips, tongue, or any other device that can aid in stimulating your
partner. Your goal is to satisfy her and who says the penis is the only tool
you can use to achieve that?
It may interest you to know that many of
the women I have sought their opinion, confessed that the hardness and
responsiveness of the penis rather than size is what matters to them. What is the use of a big penis that is not
functioning well? They usually ask rhetorically. “A living dog is better
than a dead lion,” a lady once told me.
Some women however, have a preconditioned
attraction to a large penis as a sign of masculinity. They make a psychological
association between large penises and their own satisfaction. Popularly
referred to as size queens, such
ladies believe they can never get satisfaction from sex unless their partner’s
penis is gigantic.
One thing you must know whether as a man or
woman is that vaginas come in various sizes and some vaginas are extremely
large. It is only logical that women with large vaginas would want huge cocks that
can make an impact on their jumbo vaginae
Note however, that these women are in the
minority. They are the exception to the rule and their preference does not
define the desire of the average woman.
As in all things, knowledge is power, and I
cannot stress enough how much the sexual power of a man can be elevated when he
simply learns how to cater to the specific and unique needs of his partner.
Ultimately, the penis, regardless of its size, is one of many sexual tools that
a man has at his disposal. The more you learn how to use your entire body to
stimulate your partner, the less important one part of the body becomes. Even
size queens often confess that men with small cocks can be fantastic lovers
with their tongues, hands etc.
And guess what, I have encountered many
self-professed size queens who ended up getting married to men with small to
average cocks!
Like I always say, sexuality is neither
black nor white but of different shades of grey.
