You
can hardly forget the best or most memorable sex you've had. The memory can
linger in you even for a lifetime.
In
my capacity as editor of Nigeria’s leading sex journal, Best Lover magazine, I have had the privilege to talk intimately
with a cross section of Nigerian women over the years and I often ask them to
tell me their best sexual encounter or any sexual encounter they have had that
is so memorable to them. I often get
very positive responses from them especially when I take them into confidence. Below
are a couple of such confessions made to me. (Please note that I have changed
some of the names to protect their identity. Photographs used here are merely symbolic and not those of the interviewees.)
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“My best and most memorable sex was
a threesome. Two guys with me. We were all drunk after we left a club. Very
fantastic. I still dream of the double penetration. I wish I could have
something like that again but too bad I’m married now.”
-Tricia,
Ajah, Lagos.
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“My wedding night sex still remains the best and most memorable. We had
our honeymoon in Abidjan in one of the best hotels in West Africa and the sex
that night was so romantic, so fantastic. I wonder if it can ever be that good
with my husband again.”
-Seun, Festac, Lagos.
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“My boyfriend once blindfolded me and made love to me in our balcony at
night. It was great. I think that is my best sex. I came severally.”
-Chineye, Oworonshoki, Lagos.
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“I am a very loud person when it comes to sex.
I always express myself verbally. But sometimes last year, my boyfriend and I
visited one of my aunts in the village. In the night both of us were very much
in the mood to have sex and we were aware the walls were paper-thin. My aunt
and her grown up children were sleeping in the next room. The slightest sound
from us would be heard in the next room. We went ahead and did it in the most
silent and non-verbal way we had not done before. It made everything feel so
much more urgent and hot.”
—Afoke, Ughelli, Delta State.
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“My boyfriend
used to say he would go down on me for hours, and one day, we put it to the
test. He went down on me for several hours. We had little breaks in between,
but what was incredible was the devotion to focus on my pleasure. I had
countless orgasms and I’m looking forward to the day he would do that to me
again.”
—Roli, Warri, Delta State.
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“I was into runs long ago and a friend introduced
me to a Senegalese man who was in Abuja for business. His English was terrible;
we could barely communicate but when we went to bed, it was fantastic. The man
was very well endowed-about the biggest I've seen but he was gentle and handled
me like a baby. He licked me everywhere and made me so relaxed and wet and I
was begging him to enter me. When he did, it was out of this world. I came many
times. It was so nice. I've never met another man that is so good in bed.
Unfortunately, we met only that one time. I don’t have his contact and I don’t
even remember the name he called for me now.”
-Benita, Wuse, Abuja.
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“One of my ex-boyfriends and I were traveling one time and we stopped
on the way to check something in the car. There was a steep rock nearby and he
joked that the place would be good for a quickie and I agreed with him. He
suggested that we actually have a quickie. I felt it was crazy but he cajoled
me to do it and it turned out to the hottest sex for me. Maybe the fear of
somebody seeing us or some creature emerging from the bush, I really don’t know
but it was quick yet so sweet.”
-Damilare, Osogbo, Osun
State.
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“One time, my husband and I did it doggy style
in front of a mirror. What was so hot was seeing our faces. I could see how much
we both wanted it. It was awesome.”
Nkonye, Agbor, Delta State.
“My best sex was when one of my ex-boyfriends
gave me oral sex but before he did so, he slowly slide an ice cube around my
clitoris. The cold of the ice followed by the warmth of his tongue was an
incredible sensation.”
—Stella, Abuja.
