I am Ebube, a 43-year-old
housewife in Abuja. My husband is a businessman while I am a full-time housewife
although I do some small businesses from home.
I have heard of
swinging couples, that is couples who exchange or swap partners for sex but I never
imagined that I would be involved one day. My husband, who is a regular reader
of Best Lover, often shows me confessions
and stories of swingers. He once suggested we should give it a trial but I
simply ignored him. The idea just didn't appeal to me.
Last month, my friend,
Chioma, who is 40 and lives in Enugu came to Abuja with her husband, Chuka. They
had a wedding and a conference to attend and stayed with us for five days. They
are a very social couple and had been involved in swinging when they lived in
Dublin, Ireland and even when they came back to Nigeria and were in Lagos.