Hookup with high quality women.

By “high quality women,” we are talking of high flying career ladies, professionals, high class businesswomen and top society ladies. How do you get hooked up with such women?

If you are interested in this category of women, you must be patient and work diligently towards it. There is no shortcut. You cannot get them overnight. More importantly, no “agent” or matchmaker can easily connect you to them. There is nobody who has a list or pool of such ladies and will give you their contact just by asking or paying money to the person. Don’t make yourself a victim of scam.

To be a player or gigolo is an art or a game of sort that you need to work at. It is not something for shy people so you must come out of your comfort zone and go after the women. Don’t laze around and believe there is somebody out there who will give you names and phone contact of high class ladies just for the asking. Put on your thinking cap man, things don’t work that way with women. Yes, many high class ladies are lonely and yearning for emotional attachment but hey, they don’t go about announcing it or giving their contacts to people that they are looking for guys. Even when these ladies decide to use a dating agency, they do so anonymously. They don’t announce themselves that they are rich and successful. No genuine lady puts out such sensitive info about herself even if she is desperate. So beware of those who tell you they have rich and successful ladies they want to connect you to.

Now here are tips and info on how to get such ladies. You should bear in mind that as a player, you are like a hunter. A hunter who wants to catch a particular animal, must first know the habitat of that animal, know its habit/behaviour and use the information gathered to try and trap the animal. This applies to the dating world as well. Your first move is to know where to meet the category of women you want. You should be able to move in their cycle to be able to attract them. You cannot be moving from one beer parlour to another or from cybercafé to football viewing centres and similar places and hope to met high quality women. Those are not their natural habitats. You must be around the corporate world they belong to. Venues of symposia, luncheons, conference centres where conferences and events involving the movers and shakers of the society are taking place, supermarkets, high class fitness/weight-loss gym, etc are the kind of places you can meet high quality women. You should also not just be seen in such places, get involved in activities going on in such places. Learn to interact and be friendly with people. Form an NGO if possible and use that as an excuse to approach these ladies directly for assistance of the cause your NGO is pursuing. In the course of meeting them and soliciting for their support, you can easily kill two birds with one stone. Be scientific and think with your head.

There are guys who surf the net and spend hours on social networks trying to get high class women. It can work that way but your chances are very slim to get a high class woman through the net. The fact is that the net is home to so much fraud and there are all manner of criminal fellows using it to commit crimes. The beautiful and rich lady you think you are chatting with might just be fake. Some criminal somewhere might have created that profile and pretending to be a woman. Beware and thread carefully when using the internet. Real players go out there to do the hunt. 

Your lifestyle decides the type of person you are. It may be an expensive habit but if you need to go to bars and clubs, consider becoming a regular at some of the upper-class clubs or becoming active in some of the more high-profile and respectable honorary activities in your area. Being seen at events like these automatically places you in the vicinity of the proper class of women who will notice you. Develop a social circle that gives you a ton of activities to participate in the things they participate in.

The bitter truth must be told to you now. Being a player at this level needs some investment on yourself. To be tall and handsome is a big plus but you must invest in yourself to look great. You must wear good clothes and look neat. The ability to start and lead a conversation with a stranger is a compulsory habit that must be in your arsenal too. Don’t forget that a high quality woman is what you are after and they are people of class and taste. They don’t come cheap so keep in mind that in return she will be expecting you to look your best for her also. Good looks has a lot to do with personal hygiene and how well you take care of your body. Wearing good-looking and appropriate clothes is as important as keeping your nails clean and manicured (yes, manicured.) A woman who is a go-getter will look for a man who holds similar beliefs.

The equation is very logical – the higher your own quality of life, the more you’ll attract high class women. But always remember, a woman will not fulfill your life. You must fulfill your own life.