Tuesday, 7 March 2017
Sunday, 5 March 2017
BEST LOVER MAGAZINE, MARCH 2017 EDITION
Dear readers of Best Lover magazine, here is the cover page of Best Lover for the month of March, 2017. Available in newsstands across Nigeria as from Monday, March 6, 2017. See your vendor for a copy.
If you want the soft copy of the magazine in PDF format sent to your email, inbox me here or Whatsapp me on 08033371175 for further information.
Saturday, 25 February 2017
NIGERIAN WOMEN SHARE THE DETAILS OF THEIR HOTTEST SEX EVER.
You
can hardly forget the best or most memorable sex you've had. The memory can
linger in you even for a lifetime.
In
my capacity as editor of Nigeria’s leading sex journal, Best Lover magazine, I have had the privilege to talk intimately
with a cross section of Nigerian women over the years and I often ask them to
tell me their best sexual encounter or any sexual encounter they have had that
is so memorable to them. I often get
very positive responses from them especially when I take them into confidence. Below
are a couple of such confessions made to me. (Please note that I have changed
some of the names to protect their identity. Photographs used here are merely symbolic and not those of the interviewees.)
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“My best and most memorable sex was
a threesome. Two guys with me. We were all drunk after we left a club. Very
fantastic. I still dream of the double penetration. I wish I could have
something like that again but too bad I’m married now.”
-Tricia,
Ajah, Lagos.
* * *
“My wedding night sex still remains the best and most memorable. We had
our honeymoon in Abidjan in one of the best hotels in West Africa and the sex
that night was so romantic, so fantastic. I wonder if it can ever be that good
with my husband again.”
-Seun, Festac, Lagos.
* * *
“My boyfriend once blindfolded me and made love to me in our balcony at
night. It was great. I think that is my best sex. I came severally.”
-Chineye, Oworonshoki, Lagos.
* * *
“I am a very loud person when it comes to sex.
I always express myself verbally. But sometimes last year, my boyfriend and I
visited one of my aunts in the village. In the night both of us were very much
in the mood to have sex and we were aware the walls were paper-thin. My aunt
and her grown up children were sleeping in the next room. The slightest sound
from us would be heard in the next room. We went ahead and did it in the most
silent and non-verbal way we had not done before. It made everything feel so
much more urgent and hot.”
—Afoke, Ughelli, Delta State.
* * *
“My boyfriend
used to say he would go down on me for hours, and one day, we put it to the
test. He went down on me for several hours. We had little breaks in between,
but what was incredible was the devotion to focus on my pleasure. I had
countless orgasms and I’m looking forward to the day he would do that to me
again.”
—Roli, Warri, Delta State.
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* *
“I was into runs long ago and a friend introduced
me to a Senegalese man who was in Abuja for business. His English was terrible;
we could barely communicate but when we went to bed, it was fantastic. The man
was very well endowed-about the biggest I've seen but he was gentle and handled
me like a baby. He licked me everywhere and made me so relaxed and wet and I
was begging him to enter me. When he did, it was out of this world. I came many
times. It was so nice. I've never met another man that is so good in bed.
Unfortunately, we met only that one time. I don’t have his contact and I don’t
even remember the name he called for me now.”
-Benita, Wuse, Abuja.
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* *
“One of my ex-boyfriends and I were traveling one time and we stopped
on the way to check something in the car. There was a steep rock nearby and he
joked that the place would be good for a quickie and I agreed with him. He
suggested that we actually have a quickie. I felt it was crazy but he cajoled
me to do it and it turned out to the hottest sex for me. Maybe the fear of
somebody seeing us or some creature emerging from the bush, I really don’t know
but it was quick yet so sweet.”
-Damilare, Osogbo, Osun
State.
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* *
“One time, my husband and I did it doggy style
in front of a mirror. What was so hot was seeing our faces. I could see how much
we both wanted it. It was awesome.”
Nkonye, Agbor, Delta State.
“My best sex was when one of my ex-boyfriends
gave me oral sex but before he did so, he slowly slide an ice cube around my
clitoris. The cold of the ice followed by the warmth of his tongue was an
incredible sensation.”
—Stella, Abuja.
Monday, 6 February 2017
BEST LOVER FEBRUARY, 2017 EDITION
The cover page of February, 2017 Best Lover, Nigeria's leading romance and soft porn magazine. Available all over Nigeria at newsstands. Soft copies in PDF formats also available.
Thursday, 26 January 2017
PENIS SIZE, WOMEN & THEIR SATISFACTION.
In my many years as editor of Best Lover
magazine, I have had scores of conversations with women about the most intimate
details of their sex lives. They have told me things they have related to no
other person, including their most esoteric sexual practices and wildest
fantasies.
I observed from these conversations that
majority of women are not fixated on the penis the way men for instance are obsessed
with breasts, ass and some other feminine parts. But I often steer the
conversation towards that direction to find out firsthand from them what they
feel about that important male organ: The penis. And more often than not, they
tell me sincerely how they feel about men’s cock.
It cannot be denied that when it comes to
penises, some women do have a definite preference as to size or shape and
anything short of that may not please them. But the overwhelming majority of
women I have interviewed have confessed that length, width, appearance, and
complexion are all factors that do not matter to them in a long-term
relationship when they love the guy and he treats them well. I eventually came
to the realization that as long as the penis is not a very small one, the
average woman is not so bothered about the size. Of a truth, men are the ones
who usually bellyache about penis size and not the average woman. In reality,
penis size is not as significant as most men believe it to be because the penis
is not the only body part that can be used to stimulate and satisfy a woman.
As a good lover, you must learn to use your
hands, lips, tongue, or any other device that can aid in stimulating your
partner. Your goal is to satisfy her and who says the penis is the only tool
you can use to achieve that?
It may interest you to know that many of
the women I have sought their opinion, confessed that the hardness and
responsiveness of the penis rather than size is what matters to them. What is the use of a big penis that is not
functioning well? They usually ask rhetorically. “A living dog is better
than a dead lion,” a lady once told me.
Some women however, have a preconditioned
attraction to a large penis as a sign of masculinity. They make a psychological
association between large penises and their own satisfaction. Popularly
referred to as size queens, such
ladies believe they can never get satisfaction from sex unless their partner’s
penis is gigantic.
One thing you must know whether as a man or
woman is that vaginas come in various sizes and some vaginas are extremely
large. It is only logical that women with large vaginas would want huge cocks that
can make an impact on their jumbo vaginae
. Quite a lot (but certainly not all)
size queens tend to have a large tunnel down there!
Note however, that these women are in the
minority. They are the exception to the rule and their preference does not
define the desire of the average woman.
As in all things, knowledge is power, and I
cannot stress enough how much the sexual power of a man can be elevated when he
simply learns how to cater to the specific and unique needs of his partner.
Ultimately, the penis, regardless of its size, is one of many sexual tools that
a man has at his disposal. The more you learn how to use your entire body to
stimulate your partner, the less important one part of the body becomes. Even
size queens often confess that men with small cocks can be fantastic lovers
with their tongues, hands etc.
And guess what, I have encountered many
self-professed size queens who ended up getting married to men with small to
average cocks!
Like I always say, sexuality is neither
black nor white but of different shades of grey.
Sunday, 15 January 2017
HOW TO GET A NIGERIAN SUGAR MOMMY.
As
the editor of Nigeria’s leading romance and softcore journal, Best
Lover, I get calls, text messages and emails every other day from young
Nigerian men asking me to “connect” or ”link” them to “sugar mommies,” “cougars,”
“MILFs,” “older women,” etc.
The
bottom line is that these guys are in desperate need of rich, older women. They need someone who can take care of them financially while they in turn
take care of her emotional and sexual needs.
I do
understand that some young men naturally prefer older women for a date and
there may be some evolutionary reasons for this, but majority of these Nigerian
studs are desperate for these relationships just for cash. And as the country’s
economy gets worse with job losses and inflation spiraling out of control, the
demand for rich older women gets higher.
Not
surprisingly, scammers have jumped into the fray to cash on the desperation of these
young men. On daily basis, they put up adverts in magazines, newspapers and
online in their websites, blogs, Facebook and other social mediums on the
internet where they promise to “connect” or “link” young men with “very rich
women,” “sugar mommy,” “cougars,” etc who will pamper them with money and gifts
of all kinds. All they need to do is pay a certain amount as “registration fee,”
“connection fee” or “agency fee” and they will be immediately connected to
these women. Of course it is a scam of the advanced-fee-fraud genre and the moment
the so called “connection fee” or “agency fee” is paid, these guys cut off
communication with the victim or continue to dribble him and cajole him to pay
more money until he eventually realized that he is being scammed.
Nigerian
young men in their millions have fallen prey to these scams and many more will fall
victim owing to desperation and ignorance.
I
have spent a lot of time to inform and warn Nigerian young men about these
scams. I always tell them that there is no agency or anybody who has the telephone
numbers or list of sugar mommies and other rich older women that they will give
to them just by asking for them. I have also taken the pains to educate them
about the psychology and behaviour of the average Nigerian woman when it comes
to dating. I have equally made it clear to them that the dating scene in
Nigeria has not evolved to the point where rich women engage agencies to help
them search for sugar boys as these scammers want them to believe.
It is
against this background that I wrote the book, Get Your Sugar Mommy Now! Easy
Ways To Talk To Rich, Older Ladies & Win Their Love,”
The
book is all about what you can do as a young man to get a sugar mommy in
Nigeria. Surely, there are sugar mamas in Nigeria and many guys are dating
them. You can also get yours but you won’t get one by paying money to someone
to get one for you. You have to go get her yourself!
There
are certain things that guys who are dating sugar mommies did and are still doing
that you have not done that is preventing you from getting a sugar mama. What
are those things you have not done and how did these guys get their sugar mom?
The answers are all in this fascinating booklet.
You
will discover from this book that at the end of the day, the so called sugar mommy, cougars, MILF, etc are
women. They just happen to be older, richer and perhaps more educated than the
guy seeking them. It follows that if you understand women especially the
Nigerian specie and know what to say when you approach them, you will not have
a problem getting a sugar mommy or any other rich older woman in Nigeria. You
may not know it but truth is that many rich Nigerian ladies and celebrities are
living loveless lives, are lonely and in need of company. They are vulnerable and
much easier to talk to than you may have imagined. The challenge is knowing how
to identify them, where to meet them and what to say when you approach them. The
book is all of these and lots more. Are you tongue-tied, shy and unable to talk
to women? Are you afraid of rejection? Are you intimated by the age, wealth and
fame of rich women? These are the things preventing you from getting a sugar
mommy and the book will show you in practical ways how to overcome such obstacles.
Get this book today and turn your disabilities to ability. Among others, it includes
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and win their love; Where exactly to
meet sugar mommies in Nigeria, How
exactly to approach them and what to say, what they want from you and how to
sustain their friendship and make them spend money on you and lots and lots
more.
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INFIDELITY: WHEN TO FORGIVE AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE.
I got a rude shock couple of days ago when news of the
breakup of one of my friend’s marriage got to me. The wife had gone to court
for the dissolution of their five years marriage. I couldn't reach my friend or
his estranged wife but I got through to a mutual friend who lives close to
them. From him, I learned that my friend’s wife claimed she caught my friend
with another woman and she was not ready to forgive or forget his infidelity.
She decided to end the marriage.
My friend’s case is not an isolated one because
infidelity is a major issue in today’s marriage. Globally, it is said to be the
main cause of the breakup of most marriages. There is also strong evidence that
men are often the guilty party in marital infidelity and women are left in a
quagmire whether to live with it or not. But should a woman head for divorce
the moment she discovers her husband’s infidelity? Should the marriage come to
an end because the man banged another pussy?
Women should know that there is a difference between a
married man who is having an affair and a married man who is having casual sex
or flicks for the fun of it. A woman whose husband is having an affair should
be more worried than a woman whose husband is having flicks with other women
for sex’s sake. Am I getting you confused here? Well, just read on and you will
get my drift.
Men by their nature are promiscuous. Biology, Nature
and society appear to be in support of that. The instinct is always there in
men to mate and their libido on the average is higher than those of women.
Besides, the average man can have sex for the fun of it without any emotions
attached. What is more, his body is designed to be able to mate anywhere, any
time and for whatever reason.
Women on the contrary have a lot of emotions attached
to sex. Except prostitutes who do it for money, the average woman needs some
justification for sex. (Note that I keep using the word “average” because I’m
talking of general rules here to which I’m aware there are a number of
exceptions.) Moving on, the average woman needs some level of emotional
attachment before she can have sex with a man. The man must meet certain
criteria and standards already set in her subconscious. She wants to know for
instance, if the man really loves her as he claims or he is only trying to use
her. She wants to find out if sleeping with him is politically correct or not. What would people say? What would my
children think of me? What would happen to my marriage if I’m caught? Etc.
The average man rarely considers any of these. His
animal instinct for sex seems higher than that of a woman and rational
considerations like the ones above are hardly any cause of concern to him. A hole is a hole as far as he is
concerned and he can sow his seeds wildly without any sense of commitment or
recourse to emotional feelings.
It is therefore necessary for our womenfolk to
understand this aspect of men and overlook some of their actions. We could save
a lot of marriages if our women are conscious of the sexual nature of men and
be ready to take them for whom they are and forgive them.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not trying to endorse
infidelity by men but whether we like it or not, men will be men. If you’re
going to end that marriage because he cheated on you, you might just end up being a serial divorcee! Reason is that the next man
you hook up with could even be worse and society is not going to be fair enough
to find out why you got divorced once, twice or more. All they know is that you
have divorced several times and there is a stigma attached to that.
Bottom line is if your husband is just having flicks
and not affairs, you should overlook them and develop some measure of thick
skin to them in the interest of the marriage.
And that takes me back to the meaning of “having an
affair” and “just having fun.” A married
man who is having an affair is a man who has another woman outside that he is
committed to. The key word here is committed. He sees the woman
regularly, provides for her financially and maybe along the line gets her
pregnant and starts having another family with her.
An affair of this
nature is always a threat to a marriage. This is the type that should worry a
married woman and the type that needs to be seriously addressed before it gets
out of hand.
On the other hand, a married woman whose husband has a
high libido and is having flings here and there for instance with campus girls
and similar hustlers, should not give the woman sleepless nights. No one is
going to take her place. In most cases, such men love their wife and family. He
is only trying to satisfy a biological need by fucking around with those small
girls. He is not and cannot be committed to them. He will not go home to them;
his wife is the one he will go home to. He is not in love with them and will
never bring them home to destroy his family. He loves his wife and family not
those small girls he fucks outside. Remember, men can fuck without love. They
don’t have to love somebody to sleep with her. That is the nature of men, so
don’t go about asking: “If he loves me,
why is he sleeping with another woman?” Sex is not = to love
in a man’s world. It is all about quenching a biological thirst. This is one
bitter truth I’m sure your mom didn’t tell you.
Men are visual beings and are easily aroused by what
they see. With all the sexual images around and hot, sexy ladies tempting them
with their hot bodies all over the place, men have got to be men. It is pure
lust and physical gratification that they are exhibiting and nothing else. A
man’s love for his wife and family is what will endure at the end of the day.
So ladies don’t break that marriage and jeopardize the future of your family
because of your man’s irrepressible third leg. You can save that marriage with
some dose of patience and forgiveness. Your mother did it hence her marriage
lasted.
Let me state again that I’m not trying to encourage
male philandering. Infidelity in whatever form it takes has implications for a
man’s finance, health and otherwise and it affects the entire family on the
long run. However, we need to face reality. These things happen whether we like
it or not and we need a realistic approach to them. A lady once asked me if men
forgive in similar circumstances. “A man will not hesitate to throw the woman
out if she is the one that cheated. So why would I overlook his own
infidelity?” she queried.
Well, it sounds logical but I’m sorry to say, it’s
still a man’s world and not all is fair in a man’s world. Reality check
indicates that forgiving his casual flings especially when he shows remorse
pays more than breaking the marriage. There is even no guarantee that you’re
going to get a saint in your second timeout or would you?
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